Hey so ladies help please?

ok so im 18 and in college i was always really shy and timid and blended into the background so girls never noticed me in high school. since i started college i got alot better with selfesteem and confidence but i dont really know how to get a girlfriend. i know its sad at this age but i could use some help. its now sumer i started working out and dieting to gtet in shape for a trip but my gym has no women in it just body builders. and schools over till fall. im relationship oriented and dont sleep with women i am not inlove with and look for women that do the same(hope that helps with ur answer) i know some of u may think its wierd but whatever im also an anime fan but relax i dont run around in costumes or anything and it wont take away time from socializing with friends or anything. uhm im pretty laid back dont get angry often and when i do its usually over something messed up someone did to me and it fades pretty quickly. i dont dance cause im pretty sure i was born without rythm but im more then willing to try to learn for my gf and im open for most things except party's and clubs they never were my thing and i feel uncomfotable in those surroundings. also i dislike party girls since im not a partier it seems like it would be an issue later on. so yeah can u guys help me with some tips or advice to help start me off. and please dont lecture me about how i shouldn't turn down ually promiscuous girls cause i wont change my mind on that